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10 Best Tips To Attract A Man
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10 Best Tips To Attract A Man
1) Once your loser boyfriend left your
life, you figured it was time to celebrate. Go out with the
girls, live it up.
Well, it’s been about six months, and if you have to read one
more article called “I Will Survive,” you’re going to scream.
2) Immediately after a break up, women often feel empowered.
Well, depressed and fat first, but then empowered. They’re ready
for independence and “girl power.” Friends begin ending phone
conversations with “You go, girl!” And you even find yourself
repeatedly saying, “I don’t even want a boyfriend right now.”
Sure you don’t. And if you’re happy sitting on the couch,
cuddling up to your two cats, Bo and Luke, then don’t bother
reading any further. But if you’re ready to get out there again,
you’re gonna need some ammo.
3) Work it. You know what I mean: I’m talking about you and your
fear of skin. Show a little. I don’t mean Julia Roberts in Erin
Brockovich, but maybe something from her Mystic Pizza days.
If you don’t work out, you can’t work it. Get yourself on the
elliptical a few times a week, and not only will you look better
in your new, revealing wardrobe, but you’ll feel better and
exude confidence.
4) Shut up. Enough with the
long stories already. First meetings call for shallow
conversation, not your memoirs.
5) Be mysterious. This is the 21st century version of playing
hard to get. Girls in the 20th century took this too far — never
acting interested, never calling back… You know who you are.
These days, hold back some information. Don’t divulge the
details of your brief stint as Tori Spelling’s personal
assistant; just allude to it. He’ll be begging for more.
6) No scowling. My gorgeous friend Miranda is a scowler. Scowls
at everyone in the place. When she asks, “Why can’t I get a
guy?” our friends tell her she intimidates men. She looks like a
bitch. No one will tell her so I’m telling you.
7) Show your wits. Acting ditzy is like so 1996. You watch CNN.
Dazzle him with your knowledge of the Nasdaq, not Nickelodeon.
Be seen. You’ve got a VCR, probably even Tivo. You can tape
Buffy. Just get out there and let the world know you’re
available… without looking available. Make him say, “Who’s that
girl I keep seeing around? She certainly looks mysterious and
smart.”
8) Network. You may think your best friend’s boyfriend is a
waste of time, but don’t count him out. No, I don’t mean steal
him — talk to him. Talk to all guys even if they’re taken. They
have friends, co-workers and second cousins. And they have much
better taste than your girlfriends.
9) Graduate from seventh grade. Hey, you’re an adult. Don’t
giggle with your friends and send one of them over to tell the
guy you think he’s fine. I don’t care how many tequila shots
you’ve had. You wouldn’t write his name on your book covers,
would you?
10) If all else fails, girl… make the move. Why should we always
leave it up to them? If you’ve followed the first nine tips,
then you just may have the confidence to approach the guy
yourself. What’s the worst that could happen? Wait; don’t answer
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