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5 Ways To Make Him Call You
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How To Make Him Call You
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Ways To Make Him Call You
It was, I thought, a great first
date. The wine flowed, the conversation sparkled, he seemed
genuinely interested in everything I had to say, and he promised
to call in a few days time. Then nothing. Silence. No matter how
hard I stared at the telephone, it simply refused to ring. What
could have happened to prevent him from making contact? Had he
been, I wondered, in some sort of horrible traffic accident?
Unfortunately, the explanation was much simpler; his parting
phrase, "I'll call you," was a polite way of saying nothing at
all. Perhaps I ought to consider that the date didn't go as well
as I had previously thought. Here are a few sure-fire moves to
ensure that the next time around, he will call after all:
1) Show some skin
Men like to see women's bodies. Sad but true. This absolutely
does not mean that you need to go out and buy a mini skirt so
short that you can't sit down; a knee-grazing skirt, a slightly
form-fitting blouse, or a dress that exposes a lovely bit of
neck will do. Even a subtle show of flesh reminds him of your
femininity and makes you seem accessible.
2)
Get your hands on him
A gentle touch is probably the most effective form of
flirtation; it awakens his physical sensations, conveys warmth
and sensuality...and gives him something to fantasize about. If
you don't want to appear too forward, simply touch his arm
lightly for emphasis while you're talking, or charmingly grasp
his upper arm for a few moments as you cross the street. Daring
souls can try grazing her leg against his under the table or at
a movie theater, and the more advanced flirt can "accidentally"
rub her body against his as she gets in and out of a car.
3) Do not, under any circumstances,
discuss...
Even if he is ready to start a family, most men early in the
dating game are allergic to the topics of marriage and kids. The
woman who brings them up seems desperate, and he feels as though
he is being interviewed for a job instead of appreciated for his
individual qualities. Also forbidden: any mention of previous
boyfriends; most men are leery of getting involved with women
who seem unresolved about the past. If your date asks you
pointed questions about the matter, laugh playfully, as though
it were a subject of no great importance, and say, "Oh, I'll
tell you about that the next time I see you." Which brings us
to...
4) Make lighthearted references to a
future event
Indirectly suggest the types of places you like to go and
activities you enjoy so that he doesn't have to guess what to
propose in the future. You might, for example, mention a
favorite restaurant or a movie you'd like to see.
5) Linger a little longer
If you don't think it's the moment for a goodnight kiss, at the
very least let your gaze linger a moment longer as you say
good-bye. The promise of intimacy is a powerful incentive for
bringing somebody back to you. And if you've been especially
impressed, lock lips — you've got nothing to lose.
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