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Flirting Tips For Girls
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Women are so much more subtle about
flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies,
men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming
majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would
talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you
were interested in checking them out.
1) Repeated contact...at least
three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why?
The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's
really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's
him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll
probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a
little more.) The third time you can express interest-by
introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from
across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it
will be a cinch.
2) Whisper...it always gets their
attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper
in their ear: I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when
you are done with it?
3) Never sit with other women...men
do not want you to reject them in front of an audience.
Moreover, it is already tough for them to pluck up the courage
to approach you, make life easier for them by being alone. That
makes talking easier. If you do go out with a friend...separate
every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want
to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already
missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to
interrupt.)
4) Treat
men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you
and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see
what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual
disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else
approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something nice
like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name?
Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a
girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
5) IF he acts like a fool then be
polite but firm. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones
are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in
the world.
6) Use the Buddy system. Walk
through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's
checking you out.
7) Become More irresistible! Show a
little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the
more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a
little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear
earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on
them.
8) Look over your shoulder...and
smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you
are interested.
9) Give him a look all over from
head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most
winning smile.
10) Remember that flirting is a way
of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be
generous! Have Fun! |
