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Flirting Tips For Guys
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Flirting Tips for
Guys...
Protecting Your
Options: Some men flirt with women primarily to get sex.
However, if you put aside that possibility and flirt just to be
friendly you are opening yourself to a wider range of
opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover. Conversely,
if that doesn’t work out, you could meet someone who becomes a
good friend instead and who knows someone that might be more
compatible. Keep your options open.
Personal Care Is Essential: This
means that personal grooming for men is as important as
mastering the art of flirting. Make sure your hair is clean and
your body and breath smell great. You do not have to douse
yourself in after-shave. Do take care of personal hygiene at the
basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end
up with dirty unwashed people! Fine if it suits you but if you
are looking for something else, have a little class.
Personality Goes a Long Way: Women
love being around charismatic men because they appeal to their
best feelings. Get yourself into the right attitude for flirting
and go for it. It takes a little confidence but, then again,
practice still makes perfect.
Please Her Without
Being Pushy: When you buy a woman a drink, that is all
you are buying. Don’t expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes
it is nice just to buy someone a drink, watch when they receive
it and smile, then look away--then looking back again to show
your interest. Don’t try to get a woman drunk. Wouldn't it be
preferable to have someone desire you genuinely instead of
having their senses obliterated by alcohol?
Pick Her Out of a
Crowd: Don’t make the rounds in a group of women. No
woman wants to feel that she is considered to be second best.
Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group.
You'll look like a loser and the women may think you are
desperate. Even if you are, do not show it.
Prefer Conversation First:
Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date. Most
women want to know what kind of person they are going out with.
Make an effort to get to know her better before diving in for a
date. This way, you will run less risk of being rejected when
you do ask her for a date.
Pick Your Compliments Carefully:
Offer her only genuine compliments. There’s nothing worse than a
guy who has a collection of bad pickup lines (Excuse me, I seem
to have lost my phone number and was wondering if I could borrow
yours). Instead, notice something about her such as her
beautiful nails, her bracelet, or the quality of her voice.
Everyone has something about them worthy of a genuine
compliment, so just look out for that.
Physical Contact Should Be Limited:
Keep your hands to yourself and respect their space. Some women
have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, whereas, others
are horrified by it. Touching can be a lovely way to flirt, but
should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above
the arms and not touching, until you know each other better.
Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the
reactions, and then moving back a little to remove the threat.
Phone Her if She Gives You Her Number:
If you ask for a phone number, be sure you use it. Flirting and
meeting people is not about trophy hunting. It is about making a
new connection and having fun. If you don't intend to use the
number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone
number and not having someone call. If you asked for it, use it
.
Practice, Practice, Practice: Be
yourself. There’s no point in assuming a role you think someone
wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later.
Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t sure how you are at
your best, you might want to do some work on it. |
