Share Your Intimacy Secrets & Tips
Intimate Sex Secrets
Do you feel like you are missing out on the "love" when you "make love" to your partner? Has sex
become something routine, and lost the intimacy derived from it?
Well, the suggestions below will help take sex way up to a higher level.
Put the love back in the intimate moments on bed.
Compliment your Partner
This includes compliments about your lover's physical appearance as well
as his or her technique on bed.
Tell her how beautiful she is as you slowly kiss your way down her body.
This will boost her confidence and she will relax and enjoy more during
Tell him how good it feels when he does something you like. So that he
knows what you like most. Guys need to be directed and instructed to
know what to do.
The Right Kind of Touch
I'll never forget the time I was performing oral sex on my husband and
he reached down and took my hand and held it. The instant connection I
felt was like a spark of electricity between us.
Run your fingers through your partner's hair while he or she is
performing oral sex on you. This shows your partner that you are
enjoying what he/she is doing to you.
Caress and kiss your partner's face while you slowly make love. Add a
little romantic touch to love-making.
Spend time just kissing and caressing each other before you make love.
Take a Bath Together First
My husband and I often take baths together. It gives us a chance to talk
and relax in each other's arms prior to making love. The foreplay begins
as we towel each other off.
Prepare For the Right Ambience
Make the bed with soft, clean sheets, and pile up extra pillows. Create
a tape of your favorite love songs and have it playing in the
background, light candles, turn off the lights.
Full Body Sensual Massage
Give your partner a good full body massage after a hard day work. While
he/she is lying on bed relaxing, you are actually arousing him/her by
that sensual touch of your fingers on special spots on the body. It has
been proven that many great sex preceded from a good body massage.
Perform a full body massage today to kick start a great and intimate sex
with your partner.
When couples are in the mood for very tender, loving,
sex, they go extra slow and make eye contact the entire time. The
connection they feel is incredible. There is also a great deal of
trust involved here, letting go and knowing someone is watching
you isn't exactly comfortable at first. Getting to the point
where you no longer feel uncomfortable is one of the things that
makes eye contact so intimate. By the way, I highly recommend
eye contact during oral sex.
Cuddle After Sex
I think this one is a given. Women already know it...some men,
however, don't realize how much it means to a woman when her
partner stays awake to cuddle after sex. Guys, when you make
love to a woman she feels closer to you, when it is over she
likes to revel in how wonderful she feels, and does this by
talking and snuggling up with you.
Undress Each Other
Instead of going to bed naked, wear something sexy so your
partner can undress you. This may not sound like a recipe for
intimacy but I put it in here because when I go to bed in
lingerie it causes my husband to slow down. And the same when he
comes to bed with boxers and t-shirt on. When we're both already
naked we find ourselves rushing...and rushing is okay sometimes,
but not every time. Besides, men love seeing their partner in
lingerie and women just love
taking off a man's shirt.