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Art Of Flirting
Women are very subtle with giving away flirting hints that men really
need to know and detect them. It is important to note that men are not
used to women flirting with them. Men generally love women who speak
their mind and not beat around the bush. The majority of men prefer
woman to talk to them first or at least express a larger hint or clue
that you were interested in checking them out.
Enjoy the list below:
1. Repeated contact...at least three different verbal or non-verbal
hints to drop. The first time he's walk by, check him out and make sure
it's really the guy that you are flirting with. The second, he notices
your presence and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll
probably walk by you and at least smile. He's checking you out a little
more. The third time you can express interest and make the first move by
introducing yourself, or commenting on his look or clothes, or waving
from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will
be a hit. Remember to always carry a smile on your face. Smiles show
2. Whisper into his ears...it always gets their attention. Ask them if
you share with him a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love
your shirt...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
3. Don't sit with other people when you want to flirt...men fear being
rejected in front of an audience. If you do go out with a
friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men
do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have
already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to
4. Treat men
gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and
flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what
you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval,
you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try
shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of
you to approach me, what's your name? John? John, I know how
hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who might
be interested in you.'
5. IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Tell him politely
but firmly that you are not interested and simply ask him to
leave you alone. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones
are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in
6. Have a friend with you. Walk through a crowd of men and have
your friend to watch to see who's head you turn and are checking
7. Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg, wear higher
heels, the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable
you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and
cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough
to make someone comment on them.
8. Look over your shoulder and smile at him. This asymmetrical
position is always a signal you are interested.
9. Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval
and then flash him your most winning smile.
10. Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart
and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
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