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By withdrawing the attention she
will become confused as to why you did that, and she will want
it back. You will appear more worthy to her, more of a
challenge, and more powerful. The reason for giving the initial
attention is so that she is aware of what she is missing out on
once you take it away. If you just start off by ignoring her, it
will not have any effect because she will not be aware of what
she lost.
Eye contact will make her much more attracted to you. It
indicates confidence and creates a feeling of being in love. Eye
contact can be intimidating, so combine it with a smile to let
her know that you like what you see and you are interested.
The absolute most important aspect of making a girl attracted to
you is the use of Kino. Kino is any form of touch. It affects
her subconscious. She should be thinking about what the two of
you are doing, not that you are touching her. Kino will save you
from the friend zone by establishing yourself as a sexual being.
Friction must be incorporated with Kino. A simple tap touch has
no effect, but adding a little rub will send warmth through her
body. Also, never look at your hand when initiating Kino. This
is a sign of uncertainty. If she hands you something small,
slide your hand over hers as you grab the object. If she does
not want you to touch her, she will make it clear. Likewise, if
she is interested in you, she will touch you back.
You need to get her
to notice you without thinking that what you are doing is
strange. Do not pre-plan your Kino. It should come to you on the
spot. Similarly, do not think about the touch after you have
implemented it. Perform the touches slowly instead of rushing
it, nervous people do things too fast to hide their nervousness.
Use small subtle touches, intruding on her comfort level a
little more each time. If you intrude too much you will make
things awkward, but if you don’t intrude at all, she will
consider you a good friend. Each time you touch her, she will
get more used to your touch. When she touches you back, this is
you queue to intrude on her comfort level even more. Kino
creates a challenge because she does not know whether or not you
really like her. You are not like other men who usually would
not touch.
If you do not use Kino, you are respecting her barriers too much
and are never challenging her. This maintains the barriers, and
you will never progress your relationship with her. You will be
put into her friend category because you are reinforcing the no
touching barriers.
The following are some common signs of interest. If the girl is
showing a lot of these signs, it probably means you are doing
something right in trying to get her attracted to you
She compliments you on anything
She asks you to repeat yourself to make sure she hears what you
say
She laughs at your lame jokes
She touches you (You should then touch her back in an equal
place)
She stays put when you leave
She comes back to you after she leaves
She asks where you are going when you leave
She smiles a lot at you
She makes a lot of eye contact with you
She asks your friends about you
She tries to make friends with your friends
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